pfffffft THIS ISN’T EVEN MY FINAL FORM
I understand where you’re coming from here. I’m gonna go personal with my response to this.
don’t accept it. don’t accept problematic and shitty posts just because they’re near the ballpark of the right idea. as a nonbinary feminist, I deserve way fucking better than what mainstream feminism has to offer me with its cissexist and binarist points of view. refuse to accept feminism that dismisses you and throws you under the bus or ignores your existence altogether because that’s not progress. that’s progress for a single group, a group that is already privileged in certain areas (cis woman with cis privilege, for example, and with mainstream feminism, that generally also means able-bodied, neurotypical, white privilege as well). advancements for them is not advancements for all of us. don’t let them tell you that you don’t deserve to be included because “we’re making progress for some of us right now! that should be good enough for you! stop bringing us down!”. that kind of feminism is NOT helping you, it’s not helping me, it’s not helping the people that NEED FEMINISM MOST. so that’s not the feminism you should accept.
hey, baby. <3 so, it’s entirely possible for you to be pansexual/panromantic and not currently be interested in being in a relationship with someone. if you feel it’s best you be with just yourself right now, then that’s what best for you, and you can still call yourself pan if you feel comfortable doing that! what you’re feeling is completely valid and normal. if you don’t like people anymore because you’re disappointed in them, that’s an entirely valid and okay reason to do so, and you don’t need to be currently interested in people to still call yourself pansexual. you don’t ever have to attempt to be in a relationship with anyone ever again and you can still call yourself pansexual! it’s up to you, love. <3 and best of luck to you.
hi babe. it’s kind of hard to describe what it felt like. my gender changes pretty often; I don’t really feel much permanence in my gender identities, like they’re going to be different when I wake up the next day or week or who knows! so genderfluid just feels easiest and best to encompass the flow between identity that I feel every day. <3
For those who don’t know, positronicwoman is one of the kindest, most generous, and supportive women I have ever known. She has helped me through so much in the years I’ve known her, and has grown to become one of my closest friends even though I’ve never had the good fortune to meet her in-person.
She has helped me realise who I am, helped pull me out of the deepest pits of depression I’ve gone through, and has even sent gifts to show how much of a friend she is and how she’s always there for me no matter what. And I know for a fact that she has helped, supported, loved, and cared for many others, also introducing us all together and inadvertently creating an incredibly tight-knit community of close friends.
Right now she is suffering through incredibly tough times. She has had to run away across the United States, from Michigan to Seattle, to escape her father, but after a year of stable living she is now facing homelessness or moving in with a person known to be abusive, who was the only person able to offer her a room. What she needs right now is a place to stay, with other transgender/queer femme people in the area that she can feel safe with. That doesn’t mean money won’t help though.
I am asking all of my followers and any of your own who reblog this, please help. Please at least share this if you can’t contribute yourself. I’ve set up this page myself, with the goal only being a soft cap and more of a general idea of what might be able to support her for some time. So even five dollars will mean a lot.
Please help a young trans woman survive in this day and age.
She means so much to so many people and the world wouldn’t be the same without her.
Today’s Gender of the Day is: That plastic bag in your home that is filled with other plastic bags
i feel kinda mean because today i sent a text to Phoenix saying “bby i can make you cry by saying one sentence: ‘the live action dragonball movie’ SHAAALAAAA! HEY SHALA!”
THIS ISN’T THE ONLY MEAN THING YOU HAVE SENT ME DAMN IT